Growing up.

I know full and well honestly, and things occur in a manner for certain reasons i presume... perhaps his growing up will occur in the marines, that is what i believe. Then again maybe it was fated to happen so you could see and move foward in growth. Now when it comes to people needing to grow up, many need to, both genders, and in many ways.... you see there is immaturity, perversion, and sheer "child" like actions... The three basic generalized (by me) topics... Perversion is simple, immaturity we already know, but childish actions... i can explain. Basically to take a child action is to be like 15 and play with a small toy or basically things of such nature, its the action of acting younger then you are. Those three are basic ways of how one isnt grown up, and needs to learn.

Okay so here we go again; lOl. Where you say that these 'whores' need to learn to grow up, there are some of yahh dudes who need to learn to grow up too. Now Lenny YOU can't even argue with me because I have the PERFECT person in mind when I'm talking about this; Richie.

That is my ex-boyfriend for all of you guys who don't know me; We dated for 1 year and 8 months. That's my longest relationship because I was too blind and naive to see that we weren't actually even going anywhere with our relationship; he was more like a friend than a boyfriend all that time. Don't get me wrong, I definitely found lOve in him and everything, but would I ever go back? I think NOT. I was so young then and he was even MORE childish; throughout our whole relationship, he never even wanted to makeout or anything. I made the first move and he was suchh a child that he didn't want to; that's when I had to end it. That was the moment that I MYSELF started to grow up; I was beginning to see what I wanted and he wasn't it.

Richie [as you know Lenny] still talks about me and he even says he still lOves me; believe it or not, last Friday he asked me out about THREE TIMES on the phone. All I could say was no though because he keeps saying how much he's grown up, but actions speak louder than wOrdds and even his WORDS were weak; y'know?

So this wasn't to start a war or anything; I'm agreeing with whoever it was who started this topic. People DO need to learn how to grow up, but I wanted to show you that it isn't just GIRLS. It's guys too. If they can't learn to grow up, they need to be left behind sometimes and then maybe they'll hAVE to grow in the end, although I highly doubt it. If you don't like that they're immature, go for someone who has more of a like-mind with YOU; then it's a win-win.

Red_Nakamura wrote:

True next time I'ma just avoid them if they are whores. O well already got my mind on another girl anyway. The plus is she's not a whore

then i say go for it and good luck

True next time I'ma just avoid them if they are whores. O well already got my mind on another girl anyway. The plus is she's not a whore

i have to agree i know people can be particular, but each woman and man has the opposite sex waiting for them who will accept them for who they are, as perfection in thier imperfection, even in this particular age, and even if men are choosey lowering the standards by throwing themselves over the male factor only places them at risk of being left easier, better off being rejected, then neglected after being used, but better altogether if all were avoided at once through patience and time.

Yeah and I guess I just made the rant cause I'm still slightly pissed off I mean she doesn't want to grow and I know this sounds bitchy but I hope it ends up slapping her in the face.

amen some women are whores and i say let them. they will get their's in the end

I hate how some people are unwilling to grow up when it comes to friends, after school activities and such. Me and my Rl friend both broke up with our girl friends because they would not grow up and stop being so whorish around their friends. Yeah I know now is the time of our lives but come on why make yourself a whore?